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When Stress Advice Becomes Another Task
Stress advice can become one more demand. A Hong Kong psychologist explains what two studies can and cannot tell us, and how to make support workable.
Oct 30, 2026
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How Hong Kong Talks About Feelings
Naming a feeling is not a universal cure. A Hong Kong clinical psychologist on face, family duty, guan and what people here really mean when they say fine.
Sep 24, 2026
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Why Knowing More Doesn't Help With ADHD
ADHD has two systems, cool executive function and hot reward and emotion, and most strategies only fix one. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong clinical psychologist.
Jul 18, 2026
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Tics or Tourettic OCD in Children?
Tics relieve a physical urge; Tourettic OCD eases a not-just-right feeling. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong clinical psychologist, on how to tell them apart.
Jul 14, 2026
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Body Image Distortions in Males vs Females
Social media body image distress looks different in males and females, but the underlying mechanism is the same. Dr Rick Smith, clinical psychologist, Hong Kong.
Jun 17, 2026
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What Acceptance Really Means
Acceptance does not mean approving of what hurts or giving up. It means making room to feel so you can act on what matters most. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong
Jun 8, 2026
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When Stress Advice Becomes Another Task
Stress advice can become one more demand. A Hong Kong psychologist explains what two studies can and cannot tell us, and how to make support workable.
Oct 30, 2026
Read article

How Hong Kong Talks About Feelings
Naming a feeling is not a universal cure. A Hong Kong clinical psychologist on face, family duty, guan and what people here really mean when they say fine.
Sep 24, 2026
Read article

Why Knowing More Doesn't Help With ADHD
ADHD has two systems, cool executive function and hot reward and emotion, and most strategies only fix one. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong clinical psychologist.
Jul 18, 2026
Read article

Tics or Tourettic OCD in Children?
Tics relieve a physical urge; Tourettic OCD eases a not-just-right feeling. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong clinical psychologist, on how to tell them apart.
Jul 14, 2026
Read article

Body Image Distortions in Males vs Females
Social media body image distress looks different in males and females, but the underlying mechanism is the same. Dr Rick Smith, clinical psychologist, Hong Kong.
Jun 17, 2026
Read article

What Acceptance Really Means
Acceptance does not mean approving of what hurts or giving up. It means making room to feel so you can act on what matters most. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong
Jun 8, 2026
Read article
Latest posts

When Stress Advice Becomes Another Task
Stress advice can become one more demand. A Hong Kong psychologist explains what two studies can and cannot tell us, and how to make support workable.
Oct 30, 2026
Read article

How Hong Kong Talks About Feelings
Naming a feeling is not a universal cure. A Hong Kong clinical psychologist on face, family duty, guan and what people here really mean when they say fine.
Sep 24, 2026
Read article

Why Knowing More Doesn't Help With ADHD
ADHD has two systems, cool executive function and hot reward and emotion, and most strategies only fix one. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong clinical psychologist.
Jul 18, 2026
Read article

Tics or Tourettic OCD in Children?
Tics relieve a physical urge; Tourettic OCD eases a not-just-right feeling. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong clinical psychologist, on how to tell them apart.
Jul 14, 2026
Read article

Body Image Distortions in Males vs Females
Social media body image distress looks different in males and females, but the underlying mechanism is the same. Dr Rick Smith, clinical psychologist, Hong Kong.
Jun 17, 2026
Read article

What Acceptance Really Means
Acceptance does not mean approving of what hurts or giving up. It means making room to feel so you can act on what matters most. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong
Jun 8, 2026
Read article
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Screen Time or Compulsive Social Media Use
Screentime is the wrong number to watch: compulsive social media use, ADHD symptoms, and what helps. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong psychologist.
Sep 2, 2026
Read article

Obsessional Slowness or ADHD Time Blindness
Stuck in a ritual or lost in time? How obsessional slowness in OCD differs from ADHD time blindness, by Hong Kong psychologist Dr Rick Smith.
Aug 18, 2026
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When Body Image Becomes Body Dysmorphia
Body dysmorphia is not poor body image, it is a treatable mental health condition that affects men and women. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong clinical psychologist.
Jul 22, 2026
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Staying Together or Separating for the Kids
Whether parents stay together or separate matters less to a child's mental health than how conflict is handled. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong clinical psychologist.
Jun 4, 2026
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Online vs In-Person Therapy for Hong Kong Expats
Online or in-person therapy in Hong Kong? A clinical psychologist explains the outcomes evidence, when each format works best, and what happens when expat families leave.
May 30, 2026
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Why Perfectionism, ADHD, and OCD Are Not Superpowers
Perfectionism, ADHD, and OCD are not superpowers. Each looks productive but is driven by avoidance of internal experience, and the rebrand hides the cost.
May 29, 2026
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Medication for Teen ADHD: A Psychologist's Framework for Parents
Considering medication for your teenager's ADHD? A Hong Kong clinical psychologist who doesn't prescribe explains how to think about the decision honestly.
May 27, 2026
Read article

ADHD Coaching vs ADHD Therapy: Which Do You Actually Need?
Most adults with ADHD need both coaching and therapy: coaching builds systems, therapy addresses the shame and perfectionism that keep systems from sticking.
May 23, 2026
Read article

ERP or Talk Therapy for OCD
ERP is the evidence-based treatment for OCD; talk therapy that explores intrusive thoughts often makes OCD worse by treating the thoughts as meaningful.
May 20, 2026
Read article

SPACE or Individual Therapy for an Anxious Child
SPACE works as well as individual therapy for childhood anxiety, and is the right choice when the child refuses therapy or home accommodations are heavy.
May 15, 2026
Read article

Psychologist or Counsellor in Hong Kong
Psychologist or counsellor in Hong Kong: counsellors are excellent at support, psychologists are trained in clinical change work. Choose based on what you need.
May 13, 2026
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Three Questions That Will Improve Your Parenting
Three questions improve parenting more than any system: what does your child get unconditionally, what do they earn, and exactly how do they earn it.
Apr 6, 2026
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What Every Parent Should Know After a Child's ADHD Diagnosis
After an ADHD diagnosis, six findings matter: ADHD is fluid, medication is partial, environment shapes symptoms, and home matters as much as clinic.
Apr 6, 2026
Read article

How to Respond When Your Child Refuses to Go to School
School refusal is anxiety telling your child avoidance equals safety. A structured graded return works better than forcing or waiting for readiness.
Apr 6, 2026
Read article

Why You Do Not Have a Time Problem You Have a Priorities Problem
Most people do not have a time problem. They have a priorities problem, and that is good news because priorities are far easier to fix than time itself.
Mar 31, 2026
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Why AI Cheating Is Destroying What School Is Actually For
AI cheating destroys what school is actually for: building capacity to do difficult things. Students get the grade and lose the only thing that mattered.
Mar 12, 2026
Read article

How Common Is Adult ADHD
Adult ADHD affects roughly three to six percent of adults worldwide. Many adults go undiagnosed, especially women whose anxiety gets diagnosed first instead.
Feb 22, 2026
Read article

How High-Performing Students Actually Study (And Why They Train Like Athletes)
High-performing students do not study harder than their peers. They manage energy like athletes do, with cycles of deliberate effort and real recovery.
Feb 9, 2026
Read article

Why Screen Time Is Not the Real Problem
Screen time is not the real problem; the function the screen is serving is. Use driven by escape causes harm; use driven by enjoyment usually does not.
Feb 2, 2026
Read article

OCD Research What Is Solid and What Is Emerging
Exposure and response prevention is the gold standard for OCD. SPACE helps when children refuse therapy. Other tools are emerging but still experimental.
Sep 27, 2025
Read article

How to Build Motivation by Noticing What Did Not Happen
You build motivation by noticing what did not happen because attention is reinforcement, and the missed argument or skipped scroll is where real progress lives.You build motivation by noticing what did not happen because attention is reinforcement, and the missed argument or skipped scroll is where real progress lives.
Sep 22, 2025
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Why Nagging Teens Fails and What Actually Works
Nagging teens fails because it teaches them that responsibility belongs to the parent. Teens only develop self-starting when parents stop carrying the prompts.
Aug 18, 2025
Read article

What You Are Really Paying For in High-Quality Therapy
What you pay for in high-quality therapy is not the hour in the room. It is years of training, case formulation skill, and a relationship built for you.
Aug 16, 2025
Read article

How to Tell If Your Phone Use Is a Problem
Your phone use is a problem when it pulls you away from what matters to you, not when it crosses an hour threshold. Direction matters more than duration.
Aug 1, 2025
Read article

Why Professionals Stay Stuck in High Stress
Professionals stay stuck in high stress because stress signals meaning and belonging. Reducing it can feel like reducing identity, not just workload size.
Jul 15, 2025
Read article

How Does ADHD Show Up Differently in Women and Girls
ADHD in women and girls is mostly inward: inattention rather than disruption, internal restlessness rather than hyperactivity, and years of being treated for anxiety first.
Jul 1, 2025
Read article

Why Telling Yourself Others Have It Worse Backfires
Telling yourself others have it worse does not shrink your stress, it prolongs it. The thought functions as avoidance and adds guilt without resolving the underlying problem.
May 30, 2025
Read article

How to Help a Teen Quit Vaping Without a Power Struggle
Helping a teen quit vaping without a power struggle starts with curiosity, not confrontation. Lectures shut teens down; understanding the nicotine loop opens them up.
May 15, 2025
Read article

Why Perfectionism Causes Procrastination
Perfectionism causes procrastination because tasks that matter most threaten self-worth, and not starting protects the self from a feared judgement of inadequacy.
May 7, 2025
Read article

How Do Screens Actually Affect a Child's Mood
Screens affect mood less through total hours and more through what is on the screen, when it is being used, and what it is replacing in the rest of the day.
Apr 2, 2025
Read article

Why CBT Works for So Many Different Conditions
CBT works for so many conditions because anxiety, OCD, and depression share core mechanisms: avoidance, rumination, and unhelpful thinking patterns.
Mar 29, 2025
Read article

How Do You Handle Love Bombing Without Feeling Cruel
Handling love bombing without feeling cruel means naming the pace you want, calmly and once. The guilt that follows is the cost of values, not wrongdoing.
Feb 14, 2025
Read article

How to Spot Trustworthy Mental Health Advice on Social Media
Trustworthy mental health advice on social media has three markers: named credentials, narrow claims with caveats, and no product pitched in the same post.
Jan 9, 2025
Read article
Read more…

Screen Time or Compulsive Social Media Use
Screentime is the wrong number to watch: compulsive social media use, ADHD symptoms, and what helps. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong psychologist.
Sep 2, 2026
Read article

Obsessional Slowness or ADHD Time Blindness
Stuck in a ritual or lost in time? How obsessional slowness in OCD differs from ADHD time blindness, by Hong Kong psychologist Dr Rick Smith.
Aug 18, 2026
Read article

When Body Image Becomes Body Dysmorphia
Body dysmorphia is not poor body image, it is a treatable mental health condition that affects men and women. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong clinical psychologist.
Jul 22, 2026
Read article

Staying Together or Separating for the Kids
Whether parents stay together or separate matters less to a child's mental health than how conflict is handled. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong clinical psychologist.
Jun 4, 2026
Read article

Online vs In-Person Therapy for Hong Kong Expats
Online or in-person therapy in Hong Kong? A clinical psychologist explains the outcomes evidence, when each format works best, and what happens when expat families leave.
May 30, 2026
Read article

Why Perfectionism, ADHD, and OCD Are Not Superpowers
Perfectionism, ADHD, and OCD are not superpowers. Each looks productive but is driven by avoidance of internal experience, and the rebrand hides the cost.
May 29, 2026
Read article

Medication for Teen ADHD: A Psychologist's Framework for Parents
Considering medication for your teenager's ADHD? A Hong Kong clinical psychologist who doesn't prescribe explains how to think about the decision honestly.
May 27, 2026
Read article

ADHD Coaching vs ADHD Therapy: Which Do You Actually Need?
Most adults with ADHD need both coaching and therapy: coaching builds systems, therapy addresses the shame and perfectionism that keep systems from sticking.
May 23, 2026
Read article

ERP or Talk Therapy for OCD
ERP is the evidence-based treatment for OCD; talk therapy that explores intrusive thoughts often makes OCD worse by treating the thoughts as meaningful.
May 20, 2026
Read article

SPACE or Individual Therapy for an Anxious Child
SPACE works as well as individual therapy for childhood anxiety, and is the right choice when the child refuses therapy or home accommodations are heavy.
May 15, 2026
Read article

Psychologist or Counsellor in Hong Kong
Psychologist or counsellor in Hong Kong: counsellors are excellent at support, psychologists are trained in clinical change work. Choose based on what you need.
May 13, 2026
Read article

Three Questions That Will Improve Your Parenting
Three questions improve parenting more than any system: what does your child get unconditionally, what do they earn, and exactly how do they earn it.
Apr 6, 2026
Read article

What Every Parent Should Know After a Child's ADHD Diagnosis
After an ADHD diagnosis, six findings matter: ADHD is fluid, medication is partial, environment shapes symptoms, and home matters as much as clinic.
Apr 6, 2026
Read article

How to Respond When Your Child Refuses to Go to School
School refusal is anxiety telling your child avoidance equals safety. A structured graded return works better than forcing or waiting for readiness.
Apr 6, 2026
Read article

Why You Do Not Have a Time Problem You Have a Priorities Problem
Most people do not have a time problem. They have a priorities problem, and that is good news because priorities are far easier to fix than time itself.
Mar 31, 2026
Read article

Why AI Cheating Is Destroying What School Is Actually For
AI cheating destroys what school is actually for: building capacity to do difficult things. Students get the grade and lose the only thing that mattered.
Mar 12, 2026
Read article

How Common Is Adult ADHD
Adult ADHD affects roughly three to six percent of adults worldwide. Many adults go undiagnosed, especially women whose anxiety gets diagnosed first instead.
Feb 22, 2026
Read article

How High-Performing Students Actually Study (And Why They Train Like Athletes)
High-performing students do not study harder than their peers. They manage energy like athletes do, with cycles of deliberate effort and real recovery.
Feb 9, 2026
Read article

Why Screen Time Is Not the Real Problem
Screen time is not the real problem; the function the screen is serving is. Use driven by escape causes harm; use driven by enjoyment usually does not.
Feb 2, 2026
Read article

OCD Research What Is Solid and What Is Emerging
Exposure and response prevention is the gold standard for OCD. SPACE helps when children refuse therapy. Other tools are emerging but still experimental.
Sep 27, 2025
Read article

How to Build Motivation by Noticing What Did Not Happen
You build motivation by noticing what did not happen because attention is reinforcement, and the missed argument or skipped scroll is where real progress lives.You build motivation by noticing what did not happen because attention is reinforcement, and the missed argument or skipped scroll is where real progress lives.
Sep 22, 2025
Read article

Why Nagging Teens Fails and What Actually Works
Nagging teens fails because it teaches them that responsibility belongs to the parent. Teens only develop self-starting when parents stop carrying the prompts.
Aug 18, 2025
Read article

What You Are Really Paying For in High-Quality Therapy
What you pay for in high-quality therapy is not the hour in the room. It is years of training, case formulation skill, and a relationship built for you.
Aug 16, 2025
Read article

How to Tell If Your Phone Use Is a Problem
Your phone use is a problem when it pulls you away from what matters to you, not when it crosses an hour threshold. Direction matters more than duration.
Aug 1, 2025
Read article

Why Professionals Stay Stuck in High Stress
Professionals stay stuck in high stress because stress signals meaning and belonging. Reducing it can feel like reducing identity, not just workload size.
Jul 15, 2025
Read article

How Does ADHD Show Up Differently in Women and Girls
ADHD in women and girls is mostly inward: inattention rather than disruption, internal restlessness rather than hyperactivity, and years of being treated for anxiety first.
Jul 1, 2025
Read article

Why Telling Yourself Others Have It Worse Backfires
Telling yourself others have it worse does not shrink your stress, it prolongs it. The thought functions as avoidance and adds guilt without resolving the underlying problem.
May 30, 2025
Read article

How to Help a Teen Quit Vaping Without a Power Struggle
Helping a teen quit vaping without a power struggle starts with curiosity, not confrontation. Lectures shut teens down; understanding the nicotine loop opens them up.
May 15, 2025
Read article

Why Perfectionism Causes Procrastination
Perfectionism causes procrastination because tasks that matter most threaten self-worth, and not starting protects the self from a feared judgement of inadequacy.
May 7, 2025
Read article

How Do Screens Actually Affect a Child's Mood
Screens affect mood less through total hours and more through what is on the screen, when it is being used, and what it is replacing in the rest of the day.
Apr 2, 2025
Read article

Why CBT Works for So Many Different Conditions
CBT works for so many conditions because anxiety, OCD, and depression share core mechanisms: avoidance, rumination, and unhelpful thinking patterns.
Mar 29, 2025
Read article

How Do You Handle Love Bombing Without Feeling Cruel
Handling love bombing without feeling cruel means naming the pace you want, calmly and once. The guilt that follows is the cost of values, not wrongdoing.
Feb 14, 2025
Read article

How to Spot Trustworthy Mental Health Advice on Social Media
Trustworthy mental health advice on social media has three markers: named credentials, narrow claims with caveats, and no product pitched in the same post.
Jan 9, 2025
Read article
Read more…

Screen Time or Compulsive Social Media Use
Screentime is the wrong number to watch: compulsive social media use, ADHD symptoms, and what helps. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong psychologist.
Sep 2, 2026
Read article

Obsessional Slowness or ADHD Time Blindness
Stuck in a ritual or lost in time? How obsessional slowness in OCD differs from ADHD time blindness, by Hong Kong psychologist Dr Rick Smith.
Aug 18, 2026
Read article

When Body Image Becomes Body Dysmorphia
Body dysmorphia is not poor body image, it is a treatable mental health condition that affects men and women. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong clinical psychologist.
Jul 22, 2026
Read article

Staying Together or Separating for the Kids
Whether parents stay together or separate matters less to a child's mental health than how conflict is handled. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong clinical psychologist.
Jun 4, 2026
Read article

Online vs In-Person Therapy for Hong Kong Expats
Online or in-person therapy in Hong Kong? A clinical psychologist explains the outcomes evidence, when each format works best, and what happens when expat families leave.
May 30, 2026
Read article

Why Perfectionism, ADHD, and OCD Are Not Superpowers
Perfectionism, ADHD, and OCD are not superpowers. Each looks productive but is driven by avoidance of internal experience, and the rebrand hides the cost.
May 29, 2026
Read article

Medication for Teen ADHD: A Psychologist's Framework for Parents
Considering medication for your teenager's ADHD? A Hong Kong clinical psychologist who doesn't prescribe explains how to think about the decision honestly.
May 27, 2026
Read article

ADHD Coaching vs ADHD Therapy: Which Do You Actually Need?
Most adults with ADHD need both coaching and therapy: coaching builds systems, therapy addresses the shame and perfectionism that keep systems from sticking.
May 23, 2026
Read article

ERP or Talk Therapy for OCD
ERP is the evidence-based treatment for OCD; talk therapy that explores intrusive thoughts often makes OCD worse by treating the thoughts as meaningful.
May 20, 2026
Read article

SPACE or Individual Therapy for an Anxious Child
SPACE works as well as individual therapy for childhood anxiety, and is the right choice when the child refuses therapy or home accommodations are heavy.
May 15, 2026
Read article

Psychologist or Counsellor in Hong Kong
Psychologist or counsellor in Hong Kong: counsellors are excellent at support, psychologists are trained in clinical change work. Choose based on what you need.
May 13, 2026
Read article

Three Questions That Will Improve Your Parenting
Three questions improve parenting more than any system: what does your child get unconditionally, what do they earn, and exactly how do they earn it.
Apr 6, 2026
Read article

What Every Parent Should Know After a Child's ADHD Diagnosis
After an ADHD diagnosis, six findings matter: ADHD is fluid, medication is partial, environment shapes symptoms, and home matters as much as clinic.
Apr 6, 2026
Read article

How to Respond When Your Child Refuses to Go to School
School refusal is anxiety telling your child avoidance equals safety. A structured graded return works better than forcing or waiting for readiness.
Apr 6, 2026
Read article

Why You Do Not Have a Time Problem You Have a Priorities Problem
Most people do not have a time problem. They have a priorities problem, and that is good news because priorities are far easier to fix than time itself.
Mar 31, 2026
Read article

Why AI Cheating Is Destroying What School Is Actually For
AI cheating destroys what school is actually for: building capacity to do difficult things. Students get the grade and lose the only thing that mattered.
Mar 12, 2026
Read article

How Common Is Adult ADHD
Adult ADHD affects roughly three to six percent of adults worldwide. Many adults go undiagnosed, especially women whose anxiety gets diagnosed first instead.
Feb 22, 2026
Read article

How High-Performing Students Actually Study (And Why They Train Like Athletes)
High-performing students do not study harder than their peers. They manage energy like athletes do, with cycles of deliberate effort and real recovery.
Feb 9, 2026
Read article

Why Screen Time Is Not the Real Problem
Screen time is not the real problem; the function the screen is serving is. Use driven by escape causes harm; use driven by enjoyment usually does not.
Feb 2, 2026
Read article

OCD Research What Is Solid and What Is Emerging
Exposure and response prevention is the gold standard for OCD. SPACE helps when children refuse therapy. Other tools are emerging but still experimental.
Sep 27, 2025
Read article

How to Build Motivation by Noticing What Did Not Happen
You build motivation by noticing what did not happen because attention is reinforcement, and the missed argument or skipped scroll is where real progress lives.You build motivation by noticing what did not happen because attention is reinforcement, and the missed argument or skipped scroll is where real progress lives.
Sep 22, 2025
Read article

Why Nagging Teens Fails and What Actually Works
Nagging teens fails because it teaches them that responsibility belongs to the parent. Teens only develop self-starting when parents stop carrying the prompts.
Aug 18, 2025
Read article

What You Are Really Paying For in High-Quality Therapy
What you pay for in high-quality therapy is not the hour in the room. It is years of training, case formulation skill, and a relationship built for you.
Aug 16, 2025
Read article

How to Tell If Your Phone Use Is a Problem
Your phone use is a problem when it pulls you away from what matters to you, not when it crosses an hour threshold. Direction matters more than duration.
Aug 1, 2025
Read article

Why Professionals Stay Stuck in High Stress
Professionals stay stuck in high stress because stress signals meaning and belonging. Reducing it can feel like reducing identity, not just workload size.
Jul 15, 2025
Read article

How Does ADHD Show Up Differently in Women and Girls
ADHD in women and girls is mostly inward: inattention rather than disruption, internal restlessness rather than hyperactivity, and years of being treated for anxiety first.
Jul 1, 2025
Read article

Why Telling Yourself Others Have It Worse Backfires
Telling yourself others have it worse does not shrink your stress, it prolongs it. The thought functions as avoidance and adds guilt without resolving the underlying problem.
May 30, 2025
Read article

How to Help a Teen Quit Vaping Without a Power Struggle
Helping a teen quit vaping without a power struggle starts with curiosity, not confrontation. Lectures shut teens down; understanding the nicotine loop opens them up.
May 15, 2025
Read article

Why Perfectionism Causes Procrastination
Perfectionism causes procrastination because tasks that matter most threaten self-worth, and not starting protects the self from a feared judgement of inadequacy.
May 7, 2025
Read article

How Do Screens Actually Affect a Child's Mood
Screens affect mood less through total hours and more through what is on the screen, when it is being used, and what it is replacing in the rest of the day.
Apr 2, 2025
Read article

Why CBT Works for So Many Different Conditions
CBT works for so many conditions because anxiety, OCD, and depression share core mechanisms: avoidance, rumination, and unhelpful thinking patterns.
Mar 29, 2025
Read article

How Do You Handle Love Bombing Without Feeling Cruel
Handling love bombing without feeling cruel means naming the pace you want, calmly and once. The guilt that follows is the cost of values, not wrongdoing.
Feb 14, 2025
Read article

How to Spot Trustworthy Mental Health Advice on Social Media
Trustworthy mental health advice on social media has three markers: named credentials, narrow claims with caveats, and no product pitched in the same post.
Jan 9, 2025
Read article
Read more…

Screen Time or Compulsive Social Media Use
Screentime is the wrong number to watch: compulsive social media use, ADHD symptoms, and what helps. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong psychologist.
Sep 2, 2026
Read article

Obsessional Slowness or ADHD Time Blindness
Stuck in a ritual or lost in time? How obsessional slowness in OCD differs from ADHD time blindness, by Hong Kong psychologist Dr Rick Smith.
Aug 18, 2026
Read article

When Body Image Becomes Body Dysmorphia
Body dysmorphia is not poor body image, it is a treatable mental health condition that affects men and women. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong clinical psychologist.
Jul 22, 2026
Read article

Staying Together or Separating for the Kids
Whether parents stay together or separate matters less to a child's mental health than how conflict is handled. Dr Rick Smith, Hong Kong clinical psychologist.
Jun 4, 2026
Read article

Online vs In-Person Therapy for Hong Kong Expats
Online or in-person therapy in Hong Kong? A clinical psychologist explains the outcomes evidence, when each format works best, and what happens when expat families leave.
May 30, 2026
Read article

Why Perfectionism, ADHD, and OCD Are Not Superpowers
Perfectionism, ADHD, and OCD are not superpowers. Each looks productive but is driven by avoidance of internal experience, and the rebrand hides the cost.
May 29, 2026
Read article

Medication for Teen ADHD: A Psychologist's Framework for Parents
Considering medication for your teenager's ADHD? A Hong Kong clinical psychologist who doesn't prescribe explains how to think about the decision honestly.
May 27, 2026
Read article

ADHD Coaching vs ADHD Therapy: Which Do You Actually Need?
Most adults with ADHD need both coaching and therapy: coaching builds systems, therapy addresses the shame and perfectionism that keep systems from sticking.
May 23, 2026
Read article

ERP or Talk Therapy for OCD
ERP is the evidence-based treatment for OCD; talk therapy that explores intrusive thoughts often makes OCD worse by treating the thoughts as meaningful.
May 20, 2026
Read article

SPACE or Individual Therapy for an Anxious Child
SPACE works as well as individual therapy for childhood anxiety, and is the right choice when the child refuses therapy or home accommodations are heavy.
May 15, 2026
Read article

Psychologist or Counsellor in Hong Kong
Psychologist or counsellor in Hong Kong: counsellors are excellent at support, psychologists are trained in clinical change work. Choose based on what you need.
May 13, 2026
Read article

Three Questions That Will Improve Your Parenting
Three questions improve parenting more than any system: what does your child get unconditionally, what do they earn, and exactly how do they earn it.
Apr 6, 2026
Read article

What Every Parent Should Know After a Child's ADHD Diagnosis
After an ADHD diagnosis, six findings matter: ADHD is fluid, medication is partial, environment shapes symptoms, and home matters as much as clinic.
Apr 6, 2026
Read article

How to Respond When Your Child Refuses to Go to School
School refusal is anxiety telling your child avoidance equals safety. A structured graded return works better than forcing or waiting for readiness.
Apr 6, 2026
Read article

Why You Do Not Have a Time Problem You Have a Priorities Problem
Most people do not have a time problem. They have a priorities problem, and that is good news because priorities are far easier to fix than time itself.
Mar 31, 2026
Read article

Why AI Cheating Is Destroying What School Is Actually For
AI cheating destroys what school is actually for: building capacity to do difficult things. Students get the grade and lose the only thing that mattered.
Mar 12, 2026
Read article

How Common Is Adult ADHD
Adult ADHD affects roughly three to six percent of adults worldwide. Many adults go undiagnosed, especially women whose anxiety gets diagnosed first instead.
Feb 22, 2026
Read article

How High-Performing Students Actually Study (And Why They Train Like Athletes)
High-performing students do not study harder than their peers. They manage energy like athletes do, with cycles of deliberate effort and real recovery.
Feb 9, 2026
Read article

Why Screen Time Is Not the Real Problem
Screen time is not the real problem; the function the screen is serving is. Use driven by escape causes harm; use driven by enjoyment usually does not.
Feb 2, 2026
Read article

OCD Research What Is Solid and What Is Emerging
Exposure and response prevention is the gold standard for OCD. SPACE helps when children refuse therapy. Other tools are emerging but still experimental.
Sep 27, 2025
Read article

How to Build Motivation by Noticing What Did Not Happen
You build motivation by noticing what did not happen because attention is reinforcement, and the missed argument or skipped scroll is where real progress lives.You build motivation by noticing what did not happen because attention is reinforcement, and the missed argument or skipped scroll is where real progress lives.
Sep 22, 2025
Read article

Why Nagging Teens Fails and What Actually Works
Nagging teens fails because it teaches them that responsibility belongs to the parent. Teens only develop self-starting when parents stop carrying the prompts.
Aug 18, 2025
Read article

What You Are Really Paying For in High-Quality Therapy
What you pay for in high-quality therapy is not the hour in the room. It is years of training, case formulation skill, and a relationship built for you.
Aug 16, 2025
Read article

How to Tell If Your Phone Use Is a Problem
Your phone use is a problem when it pulls you away from what matters to you, not when it crosses an hour threshold. Direction matters more than duration.
Aug 1, 2025
Read article

Why Professionals Stay Stuck in High Stress
Professionals stay stuck in high stress because stress signals meaning and belonging. Reducing it can feel like reducing identity, not just workload size.
Jul 15, 2025
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How Does ADHD Show Up Differently in Women and Girls
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