
Commonly asked questions
Privacy policy
We are committed to protecting the privacy of all individuals that provide Personal Information to us, including the data collected through our website. All identifiable information is kept strictly confidential. Only information that is agreed upon will be shared. A parent must introduce teachers or other professionals via e-mail with explicit consent as to what can be shared.
Disclaimer
Coaching is not therapy. Coaching is not a substitute for therapy. Sessions give clients the chance to develop their executive functioning skills and improve the quality of their lives.
Costs and Insurance
Time is billed and invoiced equally. This includes time spent in sessions, time responding to e-mails, document preparation, phone consultations, in-between session meetings, etc. You get to decide how much time is useful to you.
Dr Rick Smith Limited does NOT accept insurance for payment of services. Sessions are billed as a consultations and may not qualify for insurance reimbursement.
Payment happens via bank transfer, cash, or credit card. Invoices and receipts are sent via e-mail.
24 hours notice is needed for a cancellation. Missed sessions are billed at the full rate. I'd rather not charge for a missed session but doing so is in line with helping others and necessary to make working together possible and effective. If something unavoidable happens, like illness or accident, I need to know about that too.
FAQs
What information do you share?
All identifiable information is kept strictly confidential. Only information that is agreed upon will be shared. A parent must introduce teachers or other professionals via e-mail with explicit consent as to what can be shared.
How long does it take?
The typical young person needs 8-12 weekly sessions to begin to see changes. There are two factors that predict success. Those factors are:
1) Practicing skills in between sessions.
2) Parents work to reduce the amount of accommodations.
If young people begin making changes but the home environment does not change, those changes won’t stick.
What do the parents do?
Parents are part of the child’s life and are part of the solution too.
Very often, parents can feel frustrated and powerless when they see their loved one’s struggle. That’s why I am always available in between sessions and why I will ask for parents to be willing to have a parent-only session. Our work is a collaborative experience. You must be willing to support the plan that we co-create.
(Most) adults need support too. I ask adults to responsible for their own feelings. That means that they may need to recruit their partners help during moments of high-stress or overwhelming emotion. This might also mean finding their own outside support.
Whats included?
Reviewing assessments, teacher notes, case management and professional evaluations is part of the intake and included in the costs. Collaboration with other relevant professionals, such as teachers, therapists, or psychiatrists via email, follow-up calls is always included.
What's up with their anger?
Many times, when young people are under stress and anxiety, they will also externalise problems, including rage, aggression, or destroying physical objects or property. Even when otherwise calm children experience accommodations being reduced, they may react with irritability, aggression, or anger. Children use their parents to escape distress, so when parents refuse to accommodate, the child’s distress escalates. Children go into fight or flight mode. Parents can find it difficult to follow through on plans to reduce accommodations when this happens. It’s important to understand where this aggression is coming from and what it means so that parents can avoid escalating it and to determine how to respond. The key is realizing that we’re always reinforcing something, so try to only reinforce desirable behaviours. Typically, unless the child is putting themselves or someone else in danger, the best response to an aggressive child is no response at all.
Experience
2020: Dr Rick Smith Limited.
2015-2019 Southside Health, Educational Specialist supporting psycho-educational needs
Co-chair Dyslexia Association Hong Kong
F.O.C.U.S. Executive Committee member
50+ education-focused public speaking events across HK
Authored book: STOP Reading: Reading strategies for non-readers
2013-2015 Teacher at ESF Schools, Hong Kong
2010-2013 Teacher at The Anglo-American School of Moscow, Russia
2001-2010 Teacher at Pasco and Hillsborough County public schools, Florida, USA
Education
2019- Doctorate in Psychology in progress (Psy-D, USA)
2019 Program on Negotiation, Harvard
Dealing With Difficult People and Problems
Negotiating the Non-Negotiable
2018 Trained as Parent Coordinator in Hong Kong
2011-2018 Doctorate in Education (Ed.D, Bath, UK)
Thesis: The role of difficult emotions in learning
2006-2008 Masters in Educational Leadership and Administration, USA
2004-2006 Masters work: Counselling and Social Work USA
Internship: child-trauma counselor, specializing in play therapy
1998 - 2001 Bachelors, majoring in Spanish Education K-12, USA